Wednesday, December 18, 2019

We - The Amritsari Delights Day 3 & Day 4

My Apologies for a supreme delay in posting the last 2 days of my travelogue ; however I'd like to mention that I was unwell in the 1st half of Day 3 and then the next 2 days went ahead in a jiffy . Before we realised we were in Amritsar; we have already reached Mumbai and here I'm pondering over what happened in the last two days; thus bringing more smiles to my face. So here it is.........

Since the girls had wound up late night chit chatting , they planned to get up late in the morning. As I had slept off early the previous night , I woke up early morning at my usual time. Uma was fast asleep so I decided to make minimal noise so as to not invite the wrath of Madam X. The best thing to do in such a case was to read a book . Therefore I did so for another hour or more until Uma woke up and with it started our distinct chatter. I wasn't keeping so well since morning as my headache had started to build up. I had already thrown up once in the morning . Nevertheless ; I ignored it and thought that I might feel better with some hot tea on a chilly morning. However the tea worsened my condition and I threw up once more feeling a lot more unwell and acidic. By then the girls were almost ready to leave. I decided to pass the breakfast and Durgiana Temple visit and take rest since  I wanted to visit the Attari Wagah Border in the second half at any cost. Thanks to Juilee who gave me the right medicines promptly and Uma who ordered me the perfect khichadi , I was feeling much better and raring to go. I even wrote Day 2 memoir till the time girls came back to pick me up. What are friends for; the food and the medicines is one element however what really matters is when they pull your leg and make the mood light instead of sympathysing , you forget what had happened to you in the first place.

The girls came to pick me up in the 2nd half as it was our time to visit the Attari Border. The border is approx 30 kms away from the main city. It is much chilly there than the city. Thanks to Uma , we had a VIP pass booked for us. Special gratitude to Supriya Khadilkar for all the arrangements she made for an effortless entry. To begin with ; I was extremely intimidated watching both the flags from a distance and slowly as we proceeded towards the stadium , we could see the road , the army and the audience at the other side of the border. I have met several Pakistanis and interacted with them in a foreign country , however to see a Pakistan border and Pakistanis from about 300 metres was little overwhelming. The Retreat Ceremony is a flags down ceremony during sunset for both the countries and there is a lot of entertainment as a build up to the ceremony. Some found it entertaining , some found it frivolous . I will abstain from giving any opinion on this platform so an to not put across any biases in people's mind.  As soon the ceremony got over , we proceeded to a miniature Punjab like set created few kms away from Attari called Sadda Punjab. It is the place where you need to keep atleast 4-5 hours to cover the entire 12 acres of campus. The entry ticket includes visiting all attractions, fun rides, games and a buffet meal. The small pockets where they give you a taste of Punjab like the Fulkari weaving, or the folk dances and especially the Punjabi delicacies are worth a visit. A mini meal of Sarson da Saag and Makke di Roti with goond and Makkhan will take you into trance. The rest of the time and place was quite fun filled especially with Uma try to speak to the locals in fake Punjabi accent and insisting for Gajar Halwa to a vendor who sold Chole Matthari Chaat. That was when the three of us slyly withdrew ourselves from there, disowning her. After full satisfying four -five hours and battling with thick fog on the highway (I remember chanting Hanuman Chalisa rapidly) we reached our hotel safely. Exhausted we called it a day.

Day 4 began very early with an agenda to witness the sunrise at The Golden Temple. Panting away, we reached there at sunrise , however the thick fog had covered the sunrays and we were unlucky this time. Nevertheless the atmosphere out there early morning with kirtans playing in the background and fog covering the premise was like a picture straight from a movie. I havent seen a devotional place or a temple as clean and disciplined as this. More so the Seva done by thousands of devotees in various departments is par excellence. After the temple visit, the biggest challenge we faced ,  was almost like a fear hovering around us , was about how to fit that shopping in our bags. After a futile attempt to fit all of it in the bag the previous night , we decided to buy an extra bag today. So we headed to the market to buy that extra bag that would go as our cabin baggage. And alas we managed to find those bags early morning. Now that we had an extra bag , we shopped for few more things. Women I tell. I was loving every bit of it; because I knew that with Nimish around, I wouldn't be able to buy even half of what I had shopped. With just about an hour to leave for the airport , we rushed to our hotel and repacked our bags. Phew .....That was quite a feat. Finally came the time to check out and bid aideu to the one of the most warm and hospitable cities I have come across.

These four days created memories for each one of that would last for a lifetime. However all of us were also looking forward to meet our near and dear ones back in Mumbai. The early morning tiffins for the lil ones, our own morning walks, work and family routime awaited us. That is when I realised that inorder to value Routine , such getaways are a must. Finally they are getaways and you need to come back to your core and be ground by routine to value those Getaways. Think about it.

Signing off for now and wish to see you soon.

Sunday, December 15, 2019

We - The Amritsari Delights Day 2

Day 2

The chilly morning in Amritsar forced us to remain tucked in the bed for a considerable amount of time. That put our morning palns of stepping out early on a slow track. Nevertheless , once up we quickly got ready and decided to continue with our city trail. Today's plan was to visit some historic places situtated in Amritsar. One of them being Bhagwan Valmiki Tirath Sthal. However , there is a popular saying in Marathi "Pahile Potoba mag Vithoba" . So we obediently listenend to our tummy growls and decided to have an authentic Amritsari breakfast. There are very few options for breakfast here in Amristar if you want to have an authentic one. Atleast that was what we were told. On a chilly winter morning, it is best to have variety of stuffed Kulchas and Paranthas accompanied with chana and lots of curd. I have to be honest , we had one of best ones ever.

Once our tastebuds were satisfied , we decided to visit the Bhagwan Valmiki Tirath Sthal. We were told that the temple dates back to the period of Ramayan and the place is famous for Maharshi Valmiki.It is this place where her gave shelter to Sita , after she was abandoned and where her sons Luv Kush were born. Apparently this also the place where the great epic Ramayan was written by Maharshi Valmiki. It has a 8 foot tall , 800 kg gold plated idol of Valmiki. The place is in middle of a pond and gives a complete serenity to the surroundings.Also for this provided us a lot of scope for self photography. We clicked self pictures , group pictures in every angle, on every spot  . Sometimes i felt that finally the camera from our phones would pop out and and proclaim "Moms ab bas bhi karo. Main Thakk gaya hoon" . Yet we continued to click click click. Clicked to our heart's content , we decided to proceed to our next destination. Ooops and we realised that the place we had decided to visit next was closed for the next 2 hours. What next ; with superwomen in tow , we always have a Plan B. And what Plan B was it. We decided to visit Hall Bazaar , the most happening place for Shopping. On our agenda were 3 important things.

Fulkaari, Jootis and Spices. In the Fulkaari shop time flew like that of speed of a falcon. Oblivious to what was happening in the surroundings , we just kept selecting-deselecting duppattas , sarees , dress materials. Each other's opinions on a particular piece mattered here the most. Irrespective of whether you like it , if the friend's disapproved , it got de-selected. Like this we seleceted 75-100 pieces in total , shortlisted few, and again filtered few. So much patience , I observed the last time when I was taking Jr. Cutlet's lessons. Finally victorious , we stepped out of the Fulkaari shop to get into the Woolllens and then the Spices shop. After finishing the shopping ; once concern that kept bothering us was to how do we take so munch stuff back home. Nevertheless we said to each other, now that we have bought it, we will buy another bag to fit in the shopping stuff. Which means another shop for the bag. However we decided to postpone this for the next day. Because by our brunch had already settled in the tummies and Shilpa was on the verge of throwing a hunger tantrum. So we decided to have an early dinner at 6 in the evening.

Post dinner we proceeded to Gobindgarh fort for a laser show. We thought it would like any other typical laser show, however much to our surprise , the show was spectacular giving us history of Punjab, the fort and also briefly about the Indian Independence struggle. The creatives and the narration was brillinat and so were the folk dances post the show. We roamed about in the fort for sometime , sat by the bonfire chit chatting realising that it was very late and time to wind up. Although we missed going to a couple of place, it was a very fulfilling day. The mind and body we screaching and demanding for rest. While I hit the bed straight away; the girls decided to stay awake for some more chit chatting. God has made women really special. They might not find time for hundred other things; however they will always find time for a good round for chatting with their girlfriends. Kudos to the spirit.

Signing off for now for a better tomorrow





Saturday, December 14, 2019

We - The Amritsari Delights

Day 1

I never imagined that a plan that was discused so casually over Uma's Birthday lunch would soon be getting executed at such moving pace. Over numerous yeses and noos of options and discussions on the options ; we zeroed on the flight and hotel bookings . I am defintely certain that men don't decide and discuss even half of what women do especially when comes to detailing whilst planning a certain group holiday. The Jr. Cutlet as usual was trying her best to accompany us by making sad and sympathetic faces thinking that finally my heart would melt and I would let her come with us.

Finally, as the day arrived , I promised to get a lot of goodies for Jr. Cutlet and with a heavy heart and a big sigh , she bid me goodbye. During the initial planning , we had decided to get a little adventurous and plan to go on getaway from Amritsar. I secretly wished to take a day off to Dharamshala and Mcleodganj since they were about 200 kms away from Amritsar. I even tried talking about this to girls , however my ambitious plan went unheard. However , if you plan to spend about 4-5 days in Amristsar, 2 days in Dharamshala should also be on your itenary. Also a visit to the historic Kartarpur Corridor is a must. Kartapur is about just 50kms away from Amritsar , however one needs to book a slot almost a month in advance by doing few minor formalities on the Indian Home Ministry page created especially for this purpose. We missed this opportunity due to lack of dates. We landed in Amristar at 4 pm since the flight got delayed . Fortunately our cab driver also gave us few additional places to visit that we hadn't heard of. Since it is a land of the Golden Temple , one is spoilt with choices when it comes to hotel. It is always preferred to choose a hotel that is centrally located . After a quick round of stopover for a Kulhad waali Tandoori Chai (thanks to driver Paaji) , we reached the hotel.

By the time we wrote- rewrote the entire itenary and freshened up , it was 8 pm. The only plan was to have a hearty Amritsari meal at Makkhan da Dhaba (its a must visit) and try and catch the Palkhi Sahib ceremony at 10 pm at the Golden temple when the Holy book Guru Granth Sahib is taken back to the roon for the night. We missed the ceremony, however The Golden Temple at night takes you into a different world that doesn't look like a reality. The atmosphere outisde the temple at 11.30 in the night is like that of a day. Full of people swarming the streets , shopping , eating or just chilling in the brrrrrring cold.

The cold by now had started entering our bones and brains , therefore we thought it would be only wise to get back to the hotel and call it a day. Lot was planned for the days ahead . Its 1.30 in the midnight as of now and I am now loosing my fingers, eyes and mind co-ordination while writing .

"Life is either a daring Adventure of Nothing at All" by Helen Keller. So set your foot in.

So signing off for a brighter tomorrow.